Sometimes life is a bitch. You may feel like the universe is throwing so much at you and you don’t know how to control it. Babes, I’m here to remind you to just take a breath. I can handle this. You are so much more capable than you think. The longer evenings making you feel like the day is over before it’s even begun. The delightful winter illnesses are making a comeback (it got me good) There’s a chill in the air so wrapping up warm is essential even though you wish you were still in summer dresses and sandals. I GET IT. Now more than ever it is so important to look after ourselves. Taking extra time to give ourselves forms of self-love. In whatever capacity that may be. Going for a walk, running a bath, reading your favourite book, seeing your friends, doing your skincare and simply doing things that bring you joy. I know first hand how it feels when the seasons change and you just cannot bring yourself out of a funk because I’m feeling it right now. Like no matter how you try, the motivation just isn’t there but I promise this too shall pass. Christmas time for many people can feel like the loneliest time of year. Families are gathering, couples are showing off their cosy Christmas getaway pictures, girl-groups are hosting their wholesome Christmas activities. That doesn’t mean that you’re alone. It can feel isolating sometimes seeing people posting about all the fun they are having (I’m guilty of it myself) but that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to have all that fun as well. You don’t always have to rely on others to create your own memories. It just takes a little confidence to push yourself out of that box. Live through yourself and your ambitions instead of waiting for other people to give you the permission to do it! If you feel alone within your feelings and emotions, I’m just here to remind you that you are not the only one. It is such a valid feeling to have and it is OKAY to feel that way. It will all be okay.
Big love ALWAYS,
Lucy Xxx
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